a mother's day tribute!

My Mom

I was thinking the other day about my senior project in High School; I decided to make my senior prom dress. I went to a fabric store and started looking through dress patterns. I ended up picking out what resembled a wedding dress... not the easiest dress to make. Even worse, part of the fabric was tulle which happens to be that one thing that gives my mom goosebumps. (You know, some people it's the squeaky chalkboard... me it's cutting thread with my teeth... it gives me goosebumps every time, no fail.) I had no idea how to even use a sewing machine, and my mom patiently sat by my side and ended up making most of it for hours every single day. Her bedroom transformed into a sewing room as we worked on my project for weeks. We talked, she taught, we laughed. As I thought about that experience, it perfectly depicted my mom and how it was growing up in our home. She didn't complain or hesitate about helping me with my project. She was so patient and helpful, and of course, we had fun spending time together. What's more is this: me, being the little brat that I was decided when it was all done that I didn't like it. I turned it in for my senior project and got my grade, but I didn't even to wear it to my prom. I can't imagine how that must have hurt my mom's feelings? She never did say anything if it did, and still wore a big smile and was there taking my pictures and giving me hugs as I got ready for prom wearing a friend's dress. So mom, thank you for always being there for me. Thank you for always loving me unconditionally... even when I pulled stuff like this. And a few years too late, sorry! I love you so much, and love to see how much you love and adore my precious little Porter Jay because I feel like we now share the most important thing in common- motherhood. So mom, I don't know why I wanted to bring this up, other than to say that I love that you love and accept me no matter what I say or do, that you will always be here for me... no matter what. I can truly be in my own skin with you.

Mickey - Jared's Mom

While I was in college I worked part time as a preschool teacher at Kindercare. Being around little kids with colds all day long took a toll on my body and I felt like I was constantly getting sick. During this time I was dating Jared. One day I was once again sick with the flu, and was miserable. Jared insisted that he take me to his mom's house, and he did. Mickey made up the most comfortable bed for me to lie in, and waited on me. I slept and she would come in and force me to eat or drink, and even insisted I soak in her bathtub. It was so comforting to be cared for, especially during this stage of my life when I didn't have any family nearby to turn to for support. I have since learned that this is one of Mickey's best qualities. She is a very nurturing person, and if you are ill she knows how to take care of you and make you feel better. Even when you are not sick, visiting her home is a treat because she truly fits the "southern hospitality" trait. I feel blessed that I have a mother-in-law close by that is so nurturing, especially now that I have Porter. I know he is always in good hands. Thank you for your love, we love you!